I remember as a teenager my mother telling female teenagers that they are in love after observing them for a while and listening to them. And I have done it myself.
People notice that the female talks about a male a lot. She uses various reasons to talk about him.
She gets nervous when he is near. Or the sight of him, or his presence affects her physically (even sexually). Although she claims to like other guys she never fully commits to them (an obvious sign that she already has a love of her life filling her spiritual heart).
But honestly, when you talk to these people it becomes clear after a period of time that she really likes him (even though she may say otherwise [maybe she is trying to please her parents who dislike him] and may even say mean things about him.
There was a teenage girl who would visit our home when I was a teenager. She would punch me often, wrestle me, and hurt me. I wouldn’t fight back so she was even more delighted.
I told mother that this female was a pain. And mother said, “She likes you, and she wants to be your girlfriend.” I was horrified because I didn’t like her much at all, and I had bruises to prove it. Since then it is common knowledge that females being mean to guys can very well mean that she fancies him, but she has no idea how to go about finding out if he is interested in her, so to get his time and attention she takes advantage of his gentlemanly nature and she hurts him for attention.
Some females may not even know what they are doing. She is in love, acts in love, but point-blank refuses to admit to being in love. Mostly this will be to please others.
Females have told me that they have fallen in love with a guy, and her feminist mother, and her mother’s friends take the poor girl under their wings and they talk her out of believing that she likes the guy. They try all sorts of methods to get her out socializing, in someone’s bed, etc, just so that she will be sexually satisfied and with drugs, pride, arrogance, job, socializing and alcohol abuse, she has far too much on her mind, as well as their favorable attention, to think of the man that she loves.
It is years later that she realizes what really happened. Especially when she sees the guy she loves with his nice wife and children, and she realizes that the guy that she is with us not someone who she loves.
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All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 16 June 2016, 12:47:15 PM.