Boys that are not prepared for life by a mature father suffer in the sense of an Emotional Imbalance where they have not been shown by observing a stable mature father or mature male adults what their emotions are or how to control and use their own emotions. As a teenager these males respond to challenges and events with emotions, and often the wrong emotions, and as one emotion can control and help another emotion, a person out of emotional control (feeling deeply only insult or anger) can only use that emotion (anger etc) in excess.
🆘
A strong will mentally stable and mature father teaches the young male to be in control in bad situations, to remain calm in disaster situations, and to have empathy for others.
💡
The male (or female) who has no emotional control can answer a barbed question or statement with a retort or with anger, bad feelings and such instead of steady calm focus disarming the other person emotionally and controlling the situation.
The goal of the woman before marriage is to choose a partner who responds to bad situations with emotional and mature control, disarming peacefully situations or physically with confidence, but never with a desire to harm or to be unfair, if so all her childrne will have those characteristics from observing their emotionally stable, kind, humble, father.
🌈
All the best from James Martin Sandbrook.
January 2023.