We can safely say to ourselves that we are all learning in life and that no one person knows everything.
Knowing this, and knowing that all people make mistakes, we can safely say that no one had the right to tell me what is wrong with me.
Because you are learning every day and I am learning every day it is clear that we can easily make mistakes about our characters.
A person may tell you today what she thinks of you and your life, but in 3 months time their opinion of you may completely change as they learn more about you and about human nature etc.
Opinions change, people change, lessons are learned.
So when someone tells you what they think is wrong with you, stop and remember that the person giving their view of you, is learning too. This person does not know everything, and does not know you, and this person has not lived your life from your point of view, so they cannot feel what you feel, and they have not been hurt as you have been hurt.
The reality is that “you know you better than anyone else alive” .
Remember that!
And always remember that everyone is learning every day and nobody knows everything, and especially, nobody knows you, like you know you.
All the best from
James M Sandbrook.
Thursday, 3 September 2015, 9:49:28 PM.